Some things are better left unsaid.
Almost any intelligent person knows that people - “FLIRT”. According to me it’s just another way of human communication. Even people, who are happily married or paired, do occasionally flirt. It does not necessitate a confession to your partner. In fact by confronting your partner with such news, you can easily create an issue.
I am bringing this topic here, as I recently learned that a friend of mine read out a “flirting mail” that he wrote to a girl, to his girlfriend. Now the term here “flirting mail” was termed or defined by my friend’s girlfriend. Nothing physical happened between them and the conversation was completely inoffensive, ordinary and close to everyday routine. But he decided to tell his girlfriend anyway. And I cannot for the life of me understand… WHY? He didn't do anything wrong. They didn't kiss, they certainly didn't sleep together. There was no betrayal. Naturally, the girlfriend was annoyed. There was hardly any offence.
Is that a crime? It’s just human nature. It's what you do with it that makes the difference. If you make it clear, you are in a relationship and don't activate the potential romance with another beyond conversation, surely its ok – no harm can come of it.
If people start confessing every time they find someone attractive or had a dirty thought about someone or comparing with his/her ex… the world would be in serious trouble.
Anyhow, after a couple of hours of sulking, she got over it. My friend had to send e-cards; text messages; phone calls to get things back to normal. POOR CHAP!!!
Almost any intelligent person knows that people - “FLIRT”. According to me it’s just another way of human communication. Even people, who are happily married or paired, do occasionally flirt. It does not necessitate a confession to your partner. In fact by confronting your partner with such news, you can easily create an issue.
I am bringing this topic here, as I recently learned that a friend of mine read out a “flirting mail” that he wrote to a girl, to his girlfriend. Now the term here “flirting mail” was termed or defined by my friend’s girlfriend. Nothing physical happened between them and the conversation was completely inoffensive, ordinary and close to everyday routine. But he decided to tell his girlfriend anyway. And I cannot for the life of me understand… WHY? He didn't do anything wrong. They didn't kiss, they certainly didn't sleep together. There was no betrayal. Naturally, the girlfriend was annoyed. There was hardly any offence.
Is that a crime? It’s just human nature. It's what you do with it that makes the difference. If you make it clear, you are in a relationship and don't activate the potential romance with another beyond conversation, surely its ok – no harm can come of it.
If people start confessing every time they find someone attractive or had a dirty thought about someone or comparing with his/her ex… the world would be in serious trouble.
Anyhow, after a couple of hours of sulking, she got over it. My friend had to send e-cards; text messages; phone calls to get things back to normal. POOR CHAP!!!
1 comment:
flirting, does not mean a physical connect or relationship.. in that case it can not be termed as mere flirting, but something beyond that. She ofcource was wrong, as she needs to have faith in her guy. However, since I don't know the guy, can't say how secured he keeps her. Because in a relationship, no one is insecured, if proper and complete emotional security is given to each other and if not, one is bound to feel insecured. So I can not say that she didn't trust him, all I can say is that probably he has given her reasons to feel insecured.
May peace be with them
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